Earl Thomas Conley – Holding Her and Loving You (1983)

About the song

Let’s dive into the soulful world of country music with Earl Thomas Conley’s timeless ballad, “Holding Her and Loving You.” This poignant song, penned by Walt Aldridge and Tom Brasfield, strikes a chord with its heartfelt lyrics and emotive melody.

Released as part of Conley’s album “Don’t Make It Easy for Me” in 1983, “Holding Her and Loving You” quickly ascended the charts, reaching the summit of Billboard’s Hot Country Songs chart. Its raw honesty and emotional depth resonated with listeners, earning it widespread acclaim and solidifying Conley’s reputation as a master storyteller within the country music scene.

The track showcases Conley’s smooth, velvety voice as he navigates the complexities of love and longing. With a subtle blend of traditional country instrumentation and contemporary production, the song creates a rich sonic landscape that draws the listener in from the first chord.

Throughout his career, Earl Thomas Conley consistently delivered chart-topping hits, earning him numerous accolades and cementing his legacy as one of country music’s most revered artists. “Holding Her and Loving You” stands as a testament to Conley’s enduring talent and his ability to capture the essence of human emotions through music.

So, sit back, relax, and let the soothing melodies of Earl Thomas Conley’s “Holding Her and Loving You” transport you to a world where love, heartache, and redemption intertwine in perfect harmony.

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Lyrics

It’s the third hardest thing I’ll ever do
Leaving here without you
And the second hardest thing I’ll ever do
Is telling her about you

She’s been good to me
When things were going rough
How can I tell her now, good ain’t good enough
Oh, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her and loving you

If she’d give me one good reason I’d be gone
But she ain’t done one thing wrong
So don’t expect me just to walk out of the door
I still love her, but I love you more

She’s been good to me
When things weren’t going right
She made my days long before you made my nights
So the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her and loving you

Yeah, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her and loving you
Girl the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
Is holding her and loving you