About the Song
Do You Like What You See? Sly & the Family Stone’s Enduring Plea for Understanding in “Everyday People”
Ah, the late 1960s. A time of social upheaval, the Vietnam War casting a long shadow, and the fight for civil rights reaching a fever pitch. Music, as it often does, mirrored the times, offering a powerful voice for change. In 1968, a band unlike any other, Sly & the Family Stone, released a song that would become an anthem – “Everyday People”.
Fronted by the enigmatic and innovative Sly Stone, the band was a true melting pot. They defied racial and musical boundaries, blending soul, funk, rock, and even a touch of psychedelia to create a sound that was fresh, infectious, and utterly unique. “Everyday People” was a departure from their usual high-energy style. It was a mid-tempo ballad, catchy yet introspective, with a message that resonated deeply.
The song’s lyrics paint a picture of longing for connection and understanding. The narrator expresses a desire to be seen not just for their outward appearance, but for who they truly are inside. “I am no better and neither are you / We are the same in every way” sings Stone, reminding us of our shared humanity.
But there’s a twist. The narrator then confesses a series of desires, wishing they could be different – have blue eyes, live in a big house, or be more wealthy. These are all outward markers of what society often deems desirable, and the song explores the internal conflict that arises when we compare ourselves to others. “Do you like what you see? / Look at your reflection” Stone asks, challenging us to confront our own biases and judgements.
“Everyday People” is not a preachy song. It’s a gentle plea for empathy. It asks us to look beyond appearances and recognize the common ground we share. It’s a message that, sadly, remains as relevant today as it was in the tumultuous year of 1968. So, let Sly & the Family Stone’s timeless groove wash over you, and remember, we’re all just “everyday people” trying to navigate this crazy world together.